generally speaking, 4.10s are too much for an auto and you'd really sacrifice fuel economy. Because of where an auto redlines, and the fact that it only has 4 gears makes 4.10s a little too much overkill for most people. Your RPMs would be way up at highway speeds...
GENERALLY what people go with are 3.73 gears if you have an auto, and 4.10 or 4.11 if you have a manual...
and I believe 4.10s you'd have to change the carrier ion your rear diff, and idk how hard that is.
as far as driveshafts go, Ive hard and seen(at the track and on youtube

) horror stories of aluminum driveshafts...theyre lighter, but weaker...however, like Me Too said, itd be a good idea to get a stronger one...
they also make carbon fiber driveshafts...but im not sure about there durability but i bet their real light

but also pricey...